Training your submissive to give you the most out of your sex and submission sessions is important. We have an entire section dedicated to training tips and advice, from how to first introduce your sexual partner to the world of sex and submission, to getting them to try something new. I have found that incentives work very well. For example you promise to do the dishes for the week if she will try being tied up during sex, or going on that vacation she always wanted if she will let you have a weekend of exploratory sex.
You can train your sex and submission partner in the art of binding with short sessions at first so they feel comfortable, then longer as both you and your submissive become familiar with how long she can stand tight bondage. Remember you need to allow the person to move from time to time to restore blood flow and un-kink themselves. Never leave someone tied up for long periods of time. I have found that even using a corset can give a woman the feeling of being bound tightly. Surprisingly I can feel the effects of a tight corset on a womans pussy as it makes it nice and tight.
You can also use elastics as ways of imposing your rule on your submissive. By putting an elastic around a breast you can give her that feeling of pressure and constriction. This can be controlled during your adventure of making your submissive have sex and giving in to he bondage desires by doubling or tripling up the elastic. For a little bit of a shock you can also pull back on the elastic and have it snap back on the skin of your partner.
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