Catering to both the people who like to have submissive sex and to the ones who like to watch and fantasize about it. A partner that gives you Sex and obedience, is what many men and to some extent women fantasize about. A woman who has submissive sex with a man gives herself totally to him, surrendering her own freedom of mobility and action to her partner can be very satisfying in a giving way. Quiet often women who enjoy playing the submissive roll during a session of sex and submission are the complete opposite in their carrier, having to be the one in charge can be draining. So they secretly dream of letting go and losing control, having to act out someone else’s wishes and commands.
People do not always get into relationships where they combine sex and submission; instead they place themselves into other positions where they have no control. But these are seldom long lasting and eventually they will gravitate to realizing their desire to be dominated in the bedroom. A person who is in a take-charge roll at work does not always want to release themselves in a submissive way. Sometimes a person wishes to be dominant in the bedroom as well, becoming the uber master of their domain in every way, playing sex and submission games with their sexual partner reaffirms that they are in total control of their lives, from carriers to their mates, their wives, girlfriends, or boyfriends.
I remember being in a business lunch meeting with someone in the adult industry, he was a very powerful gay man, and had many people working for him and gave direction all day long. But when he came to the restaurant I could hear the sound of some chains clinking. I asked him where that noise was coming from and he told me that he had to wear them around his balls to remind himself that he belonged to his master while he was away on business.
What I described above is not uncommon, submissive females will sometimes wear chastity belts or anal plugs in between sessions of sex and obedience with their master. Talking sexual training to the next level some will wear a remote controlled vibrator inside their pussy and given certain instructions to turn it on at a set time or times throughout the day. One girl told me she had an affair with a maintenance man at her office and her way of proving her submission to him was to have him carry around the remote with him and as he saw her during the day he would secretly play with the controls, teasing her as he pleased. The act of sex and submission comes in many varieties and with your help we want to explore as many as we can on this web site.